Member #4110
03-11-06, 08:29
I just finished a most successful and pleasurable threesome. While I am drawing a bath for myself, I thought I'd try to figure out what makes a threesome work. Now I am no expert here: I have done only 5 threesomes in my life, 2 here, 1 in Thailand, and 2 in Costa Rica. So please add or quality what I have to say.
First I have to say that I have no interest in watching lesbian acts. I fast-forward those scenes in porno movies. So when I am trying to choose two chicas, I am not interested as to whether they are hot for each other. Given this idiosyncrasy that, I am sure, many guys do not share, here are my tentative rules for having a great threesome:
1. They have to be comfortable with each other, and I think I can sense that in their body language when they talk with each other. The best thing is if they have worked together in the past and if they can talk about it comfortably.
2. They shouldn't be best friends who have never done a threesome with each other. I made this mistake twice: as soon as one of their mouths gets close to the other's ****, both of them start laughing out of nervousness. They have no idea how they feel about this new kind of relationship to each other. This is a non-sexy situation: very deflating, if you know what I mean.
3. You can't let them talk on and on with each other about their families or hardships. The best way to deal with this is to put something in the mouth of one of them. One of them can try to keep distracting the other one from the sex, and the worst scenario is when one of them tries to enforce some kind of rule that the other chica is not supposed to have sexual pleasure.
4. One cannot be trying to foster the illusion that she is your novia; the illusion is incompatible with her watching you do the other chica.
5. Both need to be praised for beauty and performance, but the praise needs to be authentic and selective because the other one is watching carefully to see if you are full of bullshit.
6. I try to pick one who is very proud of her oral skills and one who is vaginally oriented. Of course, it would be good if I could have actually experienced both of them in the past, to know for sure. A must is that they both agree enthusiastically, in advance, to using the mouth down there while the other one gets it vaginally. What I try to avoid is one just sitting there or using her cell phone while waiting her turn. It is everyone's turn, for the full time that was agreed upon.
7. My good experiences, like tonight, have involved one chica with whom I had great sex at some previous time. I let her be the leader and I let her help me pick the other chica. Even later in the show time, she can still function as leader. Tonight my favorita, a Portena, chose a little Brasiliana. My Portena is a big, strong girl (not fat at all) and the Brasiliana is a very slim lady. I would never have chosen the Brasiliana for a twosome, but it turned out great to go along with my favorita's choice. I was pleasantly surprised that the Brasiliana's pushed-up breasts were natural, and it turned out that she had a sleek and perfect little butt.
8. Attitude and simple, natural sexuality are huge, and these two ladies really got into it. There was a little nervous laughter, but it was surprising how quickly the laughter changed into orgasmos. My favorita came 4 times (I'm bragging now) and she was mildly upset with me that I stopped out of exhaustion just when she was heading for her 5th. The Brasiliana also came easily, three times. They both tried to make me harder with their mouths so that the other one could enjoy me more with their cunts. A good **** loves it hard. That's what I want, the fantasy I can live on now for months. Then they were most generous to me. I love a woman who just automatically responds to cock, and both of these did (and certainly not all do)
9. I try to convince them that we will be doing this again some time. It is true when things are good, and it seems to be effective.
10. Even in the best circumstances, like tonight, things can go wrong. We had the damndest time getting into positions that the porn stars can do so easily -- I got a cramp. For example. There is so much going on, with two persons talking in a language I do not understand, and with all those body parts, that sometimes I just get confused, which is not erotic. So, patience is necessary, on my part as well as on the parts of both of them. Given a little patience, problem-solving, and good will, everyone gets his or hers.
That's all I can think of for now. It is lights out at 7:15 and people are going to work. I am going to bathe and sleep happily.
Late edit the next day after seeing all the condoms all over the floor:
11. Have lots of condoms ready in advance. The second chica doesn't want the first chica's **** juice planted deep inside her, and I can see her point. **** juice is relatively safe in terms of HIV if the woman does not have a very high virus loading, but the warm jungle of a woman's vagina is terribly sensitive to just about any kind of cootie. In all five of my experiences in threesomes, one or the other of the ladies asked for condom nueva. Last night, we turned that into a little ritual, with lots of sucking and licking to mark the donning of the new condom.
First I have to say that I have no interest in watching lesbian acts. I fast-forward those scenes in porno movies. So when I am trying to choose two chicas, I am not interested as to whether they are hot for each other. Given this idiosyncrasy that, I am sure, many guys do not share, here are my tentative rules for having a great threesome:
1. They have to be comfortable with each other, and I think I can sense that in their body language when they talk with each other. The best thing is if they have worked together in the past and if they can talk about it comfortably.
2. They shouldn't be best friends who have never done a threesome with each other. I made this mistake twice: as soon as one of their mouths gets close to the other's ****, both of them start laughing out of nervousness. They have no idea how they feel about this new kind of relationship to each other. This is a non-sexy situation: very deflating, if you know what I mean.
3. You can't let them talk on and on with each other about their families or hardships. The best way to deal with this is to put something in the mouth of one of them. One of them can try to keep distracting the other one from the sex, and the worst scenario is when one of them tries to enforce some kind of rule that the other chica is not supposed to have sexual pleasure.
4. One cannot be trying to foster the illusion that she is your novia; the illusion is incompatible with her watching you do the other chica.
5. Both need to be praised for beauty and performance, but the praise needs to be authentic and selective because the other one is watching carefully to see if you are full of bullshit.
6. I try to pick one who is very proud of her oral skills and one who is vaginally oriented. Of course, it would be good if I could have actually experienced both of them in the past, to know for sure. A must is that they both agree enthusiastically, in advance, to using the mouth down there while the other one gets it vaginally. What I try to avoid is one just sitting there or using her cell phone while waiting her turn. It is everyone's turn, for the full time that was agreed upon.
7. My good experiences, like tonight, have involved one chica with whom I had great sex at some previous time. I let her be the leader and I let her help me pick the other chica. Even later in the show time, she can still function as leader. Tonight my favorita, a Portena, chose a little Brasiliana. My Portena is a big, strong girl (not fat at all) and the Brasiliana is a very slim lady. I would never have chosen the Brasiliana for a twosome, but it turned out great to go along with my favorita's choice. I was pleasantly surprised that the Brasiliana's pushed-up breasts were natural, and it turned out that she had a sleek and perfect little butt.
8. Attitude and simple, natural sexuality are huge, and these two ladies really got into it. There was a little nervous laughter, but it was surprising how quickly the laughter changed into orgasmos. My favorita came 4 times (I'm bragging now) and she was mildly upset with me that I stopped out of exhaustion just when she was heading for her 5th. The Brasiliana also came easily, three times. They both tried to make me harder with their mouths so that the other one could enjoy me more with their cunts. A good **** loves it hard. That's what I want, the fantasy I can live on now for months. Then they were most generous to me. I love a woman who just automatically responds to cock, and both of these did (and certainly not all do)
9. I try to convince them that we will be doing this again some time. It is true when things are good, and it seems to be effective.
10. Even in the best circumstances, like tonight, things can go wrong. We had the damndest time getting into positions that the porn stars can do so easily -- I got a cramp. For example. There is so much going on, with two persons talking in a language I do not understand, and with all those body parts, that sometimes I just get confused, which is not erotic. So, patience is necessary, on my part as well as on the parts of both of them. Given a little patience, problem-solving, and good will, everyone gets his or hers.
That's all I can think of for now. It is lights out at 7:15 and people are going to work. I am going to bathe and sleep happily.
Late edit the next day after seeing all the condoms all over the floor:
11. Have lots of condoms ready in advance. The second chica doesn't want the first chica's **** juice planted deep inside her, and I can see her point. **** juice is relatively safe in terms of HIV if the woman does not have a very high virus loading, but the warm jungle of a woman's vagina is terribly sensitive to just about any kind of cootie. In all five of my experiences in threesomes, one or the other of the ladies asked for condom nueva. Last night, we turned that into a little ritual, with lots of sucking and licking to mark the donning of the new condom.