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How reliable is it to email the girl to make a future appointment versus calling her that same day?
What are the pros and cons.
AllIWantIsLove
03-14-09, 16:13
Two years I emailed a number of chicas. (My written Spanish is much better than my spoken Spanish. About 1 in six responded. Since then I have not bothered.
Bob
How reliable is it to email the girl to make a future appointment versus calling her that same day? What are the pros and cons
The two girls that I know there that use e-mail were both (at that time) using internet cafes. So they would only check the e-mail every few days. If you are trying to set up something for the same day, email will most likely be a hit or miss proposition.
TejanoLibre
03-16-09, 20:53
Two years I emailed a number of chicas. (My written Spanish is much better than my spoken Spanish. About 1 in six responded. Since then I have not bothered.
BobDon't waste your time! This is a third world country and as such most of these girls do not have a computer at home and will not take the time or pay the fucking quarter to check their e-mails.
Even if it could be a potential client!
DO NOT CALL THEM FROM A PAYPHONE EITHER!
If you call their cell phone from a pay-phone or locutorio it will fry their minutes and that will make them either not answer the phone or it will at least piss them off!
Translates into bad lay!
R
Spassmusssein
03-16-09, 22:13
The e-mail-addys of the girls are run by an anonimous agency. Usually the webdesigners, not the privado.
So you yust get a standart answer, that she is always hot and wet and can not wait for you.
Happened to me with the *holes of "VIP" in Esmeralda and Lavalle.
The answering agency also gave me a wrong price in this mail and the *ing agency tried to sell me the housepig instead of the girl I wanted.
They stayed without my money, I had my fun elsewhere better and cheaper by calling.
Sending text message to their cell phones is a better way. Sometime they response even faster to a text message than returning a call to a voice mail.
Chica Seeker
03-17-09, 14:13
My spanish is limited and I prefer text messages with the chicas as well.
It gives me time to understand better what they are saying.
My spanish is limited and I prefer text messages with the chicas as well.
It gives me time to understand better what they are saying.I noticed you were staring at the text messages you got yesterday for quite sometime. Haha.
Chica Seeker
03-18-09, 13:54
I noticed you were staring at the text messages you got yesterday for quite sometime. Haha.I noticed that you were not particularly helpful with your translation services.
Evacuation
03-18-09, 21:01
No hablo espanol. Thus, I emailed one of the independent chicas in this forum. This is much better imo, gives her time to translate my email. She always responds quickly, maybe via her mobile connection etc, I dunno.
We have an appointment after sealing the deal and I'm waiting for her right now.
If she comes, more will be posted in her relevant thread late tonite.
Big Travel Guy
03-18-09, 21:53
Well, here's a new one. For ME anyway. I was making arrangements, via e-mail, with an independent chica I met a year ago, picking her up in Cafe Orleans on a Sunday, of all days, and enjoyed two of the best sessions ever with her.
Two months ago, I got a very encouraging e-mail reply from her saying she was sorry she couldn't meet me at that particular moment, because she was far away. She sent me a picture of her at a beach somewhere. BUT, that when I came back to town in March she should be around, so to contact her then.
Well, I just did that, this morning. This evening, I got the reply: from her HUSBAND. Who told me, first, fairly politely that she was married now and to stop contacting her. The second e-mail, from him, all the while using HEr e-mail address, came 5 minutes later and was not polite. It told me, in Spanish, to the best of my translation abilities, especially given some of the "colloquial" verbs that were used, that I should stop fucking pussy and respect the fact that his wife now had a daughter. Whoa.
Anyway, didn't know whether to post this here, or under "Independent Chicas", or start a new thread called "Adventures in Mongering".
Sucks that she's out of the business and I won't see her, but somthing tells me, with you guys' help, I can find someone else somewhere in town to help ease my sorrow.
BTG
Well, about 3 days ago, I emailed about 5 potentials, and 4 replies back. Lucky me. Replies came not all at once, or even a few hours later; I pretty much got them the next day. BUT in the end, I just ended up calling a couple of place; I think its better to negotiate over the phone.
As far as your story big guy. I gotta say WHOA!
I think the husband's angry reply should go up on a new thread known as "Adventures in Mongering". Hell, I'll translate it for ya. I'm not a detective or anything, but if she contacted you 2 months ago, and today you get that note from the husband. Well, it just means that she's doing a pretty sloppy job at keeping her escort life secret. I would even put some money on that maybe she was married when you met her a year ago. So who knows, by the time you get here, she might be divorced and back in business.
Well, here's a new one. For ME anyway. I was making arrangements, via e-mail, with an independent chica I met a year ago, picking her up in Cafe Orleans on a Sunday, of all days, and enjoyed two of the best sessions ever with her.
Two months ago, I got a very encouraging e-mail reply from her saying she was sorry she couldn't meet me at that particular moment, because she was far away. She sent me a picture of her at a beach somewhere. BUT, that when I came back to town in March she should be around, so to contact her then.
Well, I just did that, this morning. This evening, I got the reply: from her HUSBAND. Who told me, first, fairly politely that she was married now and to stop contacting her. The second e-mail, from him, all the while using HEr e-mail address, came 5 minutes later and was not polite. It told me, in Spanish, to the best of my translation abilities, especially given some of the "colloquial" verbs that were used, that I should stop fucking pussy and respect the fact that his wife now had a daughter. Whoa.
Anyway, didn't know whether to post this here, or under "Independent Chicas", or start a new thread called "Adventures in Mongering".
Sucks that she's out of the business and I won't see her, but somthing tells me, with you guys' help, I can find someone else somewhere in town to help ease my sorrow.
BTG
Greetings everyone,
I've moved the discussion about cellphones to the existing thread titled "Cellphones: Calling-Using-Buying-Importing-Activating-Renting"
http://www.argentinaprivate.com/forum/showthread.php?t=5082
Thanks,
Jackson
Big Travel Guy
08-10-09, 01:51
Well, here's a new one. For ME anyway. I was making arrangements, via e-mail, with an independent chica I met a year ago, picking her up in Cafe Orleans on a Sunday, of all days, and enjoyed two of the best sessions ever with her.
Two months ago, I got a very encouraging e-mail reply from her saying she was sorry she couldn't meet me at that particular moment, because she was far away. She sent me a picture of her at a beach somewhere. BUT, that when I came back to town in March she should be around, so to contact her then.
Well, I just did that, this morning. This evening, I got the reply: from her HUSBAND. Who told me, first, fairly politely that she was married now and to stop contacting her. The second e-mail, from him, all the while using HEr e-mail address, came 5 minutes later and was not polite. It told me, in Spanish, to the best of my translation abilities, especially given some of the "colloquial" verbs that were used, that I should stop fucking pussy and respect the fact that his wife now had a daughter. Whoa.
Anyway, didn't know whether to post this here, or under "Independent Chicas", or start a new thread called "Adventures in Mongering".
Sucks that she's out of the business and I won't see her, but somthing tells me, with you guys' help, I can find someone else somewhere in town to help ease my sorrow.
BTGQuick78 suggested this girl might end up divorced and working again if I ever came back to BA. Great, but since I couldn't use her e-mail safely, and since she clearly never got my last communiqué, I figured this was the end of my nice liaison with this really hot chica. Well, TODAY, after 6 months, I got an e-mail from her, asking if I remembered her and how I was doing. I replied instantly, telling her about the intercepted e-mail. She replied that that guy was, repeat WAS her "novio" (could mean boyfriend, could mean fiancé, but in any case, probably means "baby-daddy") but not to give it any more thought. We exchanged some e-mails, she gave me a better, more secure e-mail account to use, and she asked me to contact her if I was coming back later this year.
I am sure as going to TRY to come back to BA this Astral summer, and I'll certainly look her up, since, as I said, she is one of the best free-lancers I've ever found. It has been 18 months since our initial hook-up, but she is still only 23. If I come back, if I find her, if the experience is anywhere near as good as it was the last couple times, and if she wants some promotion for her presumably resurgent career, I'll post details and contact information on this forum for the benefit of all my fellow mongers.
Just hope her former "novio" isn't still reading her emails (even with the new email address) and shows up when you go to see her. Given the history, might be a good idea to arrange the next meeting by phone.
Emailing isn't the same as calling, speciall since most don't have an email.
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